You think your Woman is Talented: 5 ways to keep her Motivated

Do you find your women talented? Does today was the day when you saw her talent? Is your wife multi-talented? Well, if you agree with above asked questions then remember the fact – “No human is insane, it’s the matter of time”. Happy people do not have the best things, they make the best whatever they have and being a man you should make someone better than the best, after all for you She is the Best. Before moving onto the ways to motivate your better half you should remember this “We all have hidden flairs, just these flairs need wind” and be a man to play the role of wind.

1.      1.You can only inspire her

Inspiration plays vital role whether its men or women they both require some sort of inspiration and who is the best person to inspire- Of course, your better half!  I am sure that you have heard this proverb “Behind every successful man there is a woman” On contrary “Behind every unsuccessful man there is also a woman who left him alone in the bad times” Now you could relate this with yourself imagine that your woman is not standing next to you in your bad times. How would you feel? You have an inner desire that I want this girl or woman to stand next to me- But she is not!

Think!

Does any book in this world will help you to get inspired? (In the above mention situation)

The answer is “BIG NO”

     Because biologically your brain wants the vibration of the desire to be full-filled and the desire when followed by faith it builds the trust, Trust is what helps to conceive your belief and belief is the factor what you will require at this time. You believe that She can inspire you, it means she only can inspire you. If you underwent this situation then I hope you know The Power of Inspiration.

 As till now you could have understood The Power of Inspiration, this is what your woman needs. An inspiration to do something, an inspiration to become something, an inspiration that she will never fail. Boss if you could inspire her then believe me NOTHING CAN DISCOURAGE HER, EVEN DEATH. She is not afraid of anything not even the death, not even the failure, not even what society thinks- Because you inspired her. The inspiration what she was continuously consciously or subconsciously seeking for is being paid, the burden the relief, the pain the sorrow, the pessimism the hope- All has being paid. What she needs next is mentioned next.

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2.  She need your attention not judgment

Let me clear you, as many people contradict both to be same but the truth is they are the two sides of the coins. Head entailing the attention, Tail relying of being judged. She don’t want to be judged because you’re not the interviewer interviewing her for the post in the company, accept this fact that your girl or your woman wants your attention every time (until and unless she require space for some time, in her mind you are her everything and I hope in your mind she is too.

As mentioned above Head entailing the attention, Tail relying of being judged . So, why head attention and tail judge? Why not vice-versa? The simple reason to that, Head & Brain is the crucial part of the body- an ultimate controller, whom you rely on to do the things, an area which has great importance to survive- shall attention her survival medicine. The medicine which can encourage her and motivate her to take charge. One of the best way because if she is seeking your attention you must give back. She is looking into your eyes because she knows that you’re the only person who can hold her, whom she can stupidly share anything- in short, she hopes back what she gives (attention). Attention not only di-stress her but can boost her dopamine and you know “If she is happy and satisfied, her brain will function as fast as rocket functions”.

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3.  Life is more interesting with you by my side

Believe me or not, this is the best way to engage her mind towards motivation. Every woman wants her man to make her feel special and portraying her to be the most interesting person to have by your side is much better than giving her expensive gifts.

 She is not with you for money—that’s why she always calls you honey. Again the role of dopamine comes here- The more she feel loved, the more she feel confident. Love  and Confidence are the two wheels of the cart both ideally move to or fro together. Make her believe that no one in this world is as special or as kind as her (again, the word only not play the role, actions first) to be your side. Once she feel that you’re completely into her you can use this trick in “N” number of ways based on our creativity to make her feel motivated.

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4.    Your dream I’am your pillow

Quite philosophical, Isn’t it? But the philosophy is the under-quoted statement with farfetched concealed truth.  You dream only when you’re sleeping and to support your sleep  you use pillow. Here, the dream justifies the dream of your girl or women and pillow is you as a supporter. As a person you feel good when someone is standing next to you to support you. 

 One harsh truth based on the scientific and neurological research “If you consider someone as a support system, then it’s not the love. Harsh but its truth, go and find out it is mentioned from ancient scriptures to modern research- it portrays that you don’t love her, you just have sexual desire which will not long last, in this case love replenished when you’re satisfied by having sex again and again(probably last for 5-7.3 years). You’re weak enough to face the society and woman doesn’t want herself to be weak". Support her to feel strong not become support system- remember if even think so- Sorry then! You’re spoiling her life just to satisfy your sexual urges (It’s a crime- Humanity crime).

Related:10 Ways to Get and Give Emotional Support

5. If fallen, I’m the “Life Net”

The most effective way to admire your girl or women is by making her feel that “If she fails also then you’re love for her will never fail”. Be there for her on even on her bad days. By acting as the catalyst between failure and emotion you are actually connecting with her emotionally so that she could not feel disheartened.

So what does work for girls or women? One study found that using informational praise to describe a good performance (“You did very well on that test”), instead of making an interpretation of it (“You’re so smart”), increased girls’ intrinsic motivation. Praising effort (“You worked really hard on that”) over ability has consistently been proven to motivate all kids, and especially girls.

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                       Follow these and see the result, no force in this world can break her, no methods can dishearten her, no negative impulse can stop her from succeeding.